My grandfather told both V and I congratulations, quietly, so my small siblings wouldn't hear. My aunt gave V, whom she was just meeting, a giant hug. I showed my mom my ring, when the kids weren't around.
She told us that she appreciated our willingness to keep quiet to the kids about our marriage.
I'm still processing, still slightly annoyed, but currently floating on a cloud at the love-fest that just took place around us. My ten year old sister wouldn't let me go. And I'll see them all again tomorrow. First, sleep, to recover from the drive and the day.