I realized something the other day. As much as I want a baby, I actually don't want one right now - because I would have to give up my twins. I can't do that.
They're learning so much, they're so fascinating, and we all keep having new experiences. Gymnastics and Kindermusik are just starting. I can't imagine, nine months from now, only popping into their lives occasionally.
Yes, you can quote me later (though I may dispute you): I want to wait a bit longer to get pregnant. I'm too in love with kids who aren't mine.